When something goes wrong, most people’s first instinct is to blame their bad luck, pass the blame on to others, or simply lament about their particular situation:
It’s much easier to pass the blame and responsibility(its Responsibility…not Fault) onto somebody else, so there’s no guilt necessary when no action is taken!
Where you are RIGHT NOW in your life is a combination of decisions you’ve made, steps you’ve taken, and events that have occurred outside of your control. Although everything might not be your fault (sh** happens), it’s time to look at everything as if it were your personal responsibility to fix.
Personally, once I learned how to accept personal responsibility (it really does take time to switch your perspective,) my life took a drastic change for the better.
Once you learn to stop blaming external forces for things that go wrong, you also learn to stop relying on those forces to make positive changes. You realize that in every sense of the phrase, you are the master of your own fate.
And then doors start to open & there’s a tremendous opportunity for growth
Because you are the reason that you are where you are, you ALSO get to be the reason that you move forward
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